ANONYMOUS ASKS: How do you know if a guy likes you?
The simple, cut-to-the-chase answer: You don’t.
But….that’s not what matters.
In life, you honestly can never know if anyone likes you. The girl sitting next to you in english class? She might absolutely hate your guts. Sure, she smiles at you and is
fake polite and all that jazz, but that means nothing. On the inside, she could spend the entire class thinking about how much she hates you for something as dumb as the color of your shirt. (People are ridiculous.)
And the craziest part is that you’ll never know.
But, like I said, it doesn’t matter.
The same goes for when you’re trying to figure out if the cute boy you’ve been talking to likes you. Don’t waste your time driving yourself crazy with this. What’s the point? If you guys are talking and you enjoy spending time with him, that’s all that matters. Labels don’t mean anything.
Girls kind of get very dumb when it comes to all this stuff, and I think it’s just that they’re over thinking everything. If someone is constantly asking you to hang out, or texting you, chances are he does like you in some type of way. I mean, who tries to hang out with someone he/she hates?
Bottom line: don’t over think everything. It’s a waste of time, it ruins everything, and nobody wins/benefits. The sooner you realize/accept that you will never know, the better.
Hope this helped…thanks for the question!